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Family Reunion Houses UK: How to Choose and Book the Perfect Property

Charlotte Hayes

Head of Customer Experience

Mar 29, 2026
Family Reunion Houses UK: How to Choose and Book the Perfect Property – group accommodation planning guide

A family reunion house in the UK is one of the most meaningful group stays you can plan. Whether you're bringing together three generations for the first time in years, marking a family milestone, or simply finding a week where everyone can be together, choosing the right house makes the difference between a trip that deepens bonds and one that tests them. Here's everything you need to know.

What Makes a Great Family Reunion House?

Family reunions are more demanding than most group trips because the mix of ages, needs, and preferences is genuinely wide. The features that matter most:

  • Dining capacity: The whole family eating together is the centrepiece of the reunion. Check the dining table seats everyone — not just that the property sleeps the right number.
  • Bedroom mix: You need doubles for couples, twins for children sharing, and possibly singles for teenagers who don't want to share. Some families need ground-floor bedrooms for elderly relatives.
  • Outdoor space: A large garden or grounds transforms a family reunion. Children need somewhere to run. Adults need somewhere to sit and watch them.
  • Kitchen: Extended family stays put pressure on kitchens. Multiple ovens, large fridge-freezers, and good prep space matter significantly over several days.
  • Wet-weather options: A games room, cinema room, or large indoor social space is important when the UK weather doesn't cooperate.
  • Accessibility: For multi-generational groups, check whether there are stairs to navigate and whether any bedrooms are accessible without them.

Best Destinations for Family Reunion Houses

  • Cotswolds: The most popular choice for family reunions. Beautiful landscapes, excellent large houses, manageable distances for family members coming from different directions, and plenty of family-friendly activities.
  • Lake District: Spectacular scenery that impresses all generations. Excellent walking for adults, lakes for activities, and some very large properties in the more secluded valleys.
  • Devon: South Devon suits families wanting coastal luxury. Dartmoor works for walking-focused gatherings. Good supply of large properties with gardens.
  • Yorkshire: Excellent value, dramatic landscape, and great supply of character farmhouses and manor houses suitable for large family groups.
  • Scottish Highlands: For the most dramatic backdrop and maximum seclusion. Best for families where most members are based in Scotland or are willing to travel for a genuinely special experience.

Catering for a Family Reunion

Cooking for 20–30 people over several days is a significant undertaking. Most family reunion groups self-cater for breakfasts and casual lunches, then either self-cater or bring in a private chef for the main evening meals. A private chef for the celebration dinner — usually a Saturday evening — is one of the most popular upgrades for family reunion stays. It removes pressure from the usual organisers and creates a proper occasion.

Planning the Family Activities

Family reunion activities need to work across a wide age range. The best approach: one or two structured activities for those who want them (a long walk, a visit to a local attraction, an afternoon cooking session), with the house and garden as the default social hub. Don't over-programme — the conversations happen naturally when everyone is comfortable in the house together.

Browse our large group properties, explore UK destinations by region, and read our family reunion planning blog post for more detail.

Frequently Asked Questions

What features matter most for a family reunion house?
Dining capacity for the whole family in one room, a flexible bedroom mix including doubles and twins, excellent outdoor space for children, enough bathrooms to handle multiple generations, and a well-equipped kitchen for extended self-catering. A games room or cinema room helps on wet days.
How large a house do I need for a family reunion of 20 people?
For 20 people, look for at least 8–9 bedrooms with a mix of doubles, twins, and any singles needed for teenagers or individual family members. Confirm the dining table seats 20 in one room — this is rarely a standard feature and needs to be verified directly.
What are the best destinations for family reunion houses in the UK?
The Cotswolds, Lake District, Devon, Yorkshire, Cornwall, and the Scottish Highlands are all popular choices. The best destination depends on the family's geographic spread, whether there are young children, and what outdoor activities are wanted.
How early should I book a family reunion house?
For summer and bank holiday dates, book 9–12 months ahead for the best properties. Family reunion houses — particularly those for 20+ guests — have limited supply and go early. The more complex the family mix (young children, elderly relatives), the more specific your requirements, and the longer you should give yourself.
What catering options work best for family reunions?
Most family reunion groups self-cater for breakfast and lunch and either self-cater or use a private chef for evening meals. A private chef for the main celebration dinner is a very popular choice — it removes the cooking pressure for whoever organises the trip and creates a proper occasion.

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